IT CAN BE .... OVERWHELMING .... TO BE A PARENT 24/7, whether
you end up or are a single parent now . The stress of doing it alone is the REALITY.
"It takes a village to raise a child " is the reality of the INSTINCTUALIST family unit . Having
3 moms to help each other to support each and for each child each day to find that SPECIAL love and attention that maybe one
of the other mothers is best able to provide that DAY ...... non ego unconditional LOVE !
CHILDREN ARE NOT OUR POSSENSIONS! we invited them into our
world as our GUESTS !not our possesions !
WHAT ARE BREASTS FOR ? Are they just tools of
sexual attraction or manipulation ? or are breast the NaTURE OF HUMANITY AN expression of our INSTINCTUAL NATURE !
ORGASIMING DURING AND THRU THE CHILDRITHING PROCESS ...IS .... NATURAL , the home birth
blessing
HERE IS ONE LINK TO START WITH ...... alternative education ideas , schooling is important
but is the PUBLIC SYSTEM the best or even needed for socializing ( programing) your child/ren . OVer and over i ask to you
to think out side the box of your programing . Even though Walsh's use of the GOD word to me is ________ these schooling
ideas are great and fit in with local laws ETC.
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The concept here is all about
the human need for interaction with others , especially between child and parent . The best $ you can spend for any parent
is in Magic 123 DVD's .
This along with some many other titles will be availabe in the library
of the INSTINCUTALISM compound to come .
HOME SCHOOLING
WITH THE ECOMONIC STRAIN GONE
BY THE EFFORTS OF THE INSTINCTUALISM MALE .THREE MOMS CAN SHARE AND SCHEDULE TIMES AND LIVES
. THIS OPPURTUNITY BECOMES A PLEASNT REALITY .
Homeschool Decision - 10 Things to Consider
Making
the decision to homeschool is usually very difficult and not one to be taken lightly. It is a personal decision that I can't
make for you, but maybe I can help in the thought process. When making the homeschool decision, consider these things:
Time
commitment - Homeschooling tends to take up a lot of time in your day. It is more than just sitting down with books
for a couple of hours. There are experiments and projects to be done, lessons to prepare, papers to grade, field trips, park
days, music lessons, and the list goes on. Here are some sample schedules to give an idea of a typical day.
Personal sacrifice - The homeschool parent has little personal
time or time alone. If care is not taken to set aside time for yourself, it is easy to never have time alone. Parent and child
are basically together 24/7.
Financial strain - Homeschooling can be accomplished very inexpensively;
however, it usually requires that the teaching parent will not be working out of the home. Some sacrifices will need to be
made if the family is used to two incomes.
Socialization - More attention will need to be given to getting your children together with others. The beauty of homeschooling
is being able to have more control of the social contacts your child makes.
Household organization - Housework and laundry still have to be done, but it probably won't get done first thing in the morning. If
a stickler for a spotless house, you might be in for a surprise. Not only does housework need to be let go at times, but homeschooling
creates messes and clutter in itself.
Both parents in agreement - It is important that both
parents agree to try homeschooling. It is very difficult to homeschool if one parent is against it. If your spouse is against
it at this time, try doing more research and talking to more people.
Is your child willing?
- A willing student is always helpful. Ultimately, the decision is the parents to make, but if your child is dead against
it, you might have a hard time of it.
One year at a time - It isn't a lifetime commitment
- most families take one year at a time.
Intimidated by the teaching? - If you can read and
write, you should be able to teach your children. The curriculum and teacher materials will help through the planning and
teaching. Get help from others if you get stuck or hire tutors for the difficult subjects.
Why others began - It might be helpful to hear why other families chose homeschooling. Can you relate with some of them?
Are
you willing to make the personal and financial sacrifices that homeschooling requires? If so, give it a year and see how it
goes. Your next step? Learn how to get started. Stay up to date, read the Homeschool Blog.
These are the parenting ideas of PHILIP VAN DER MUDE just my opinion ( special disclaimer )
1. Kids are my invited guests , but like any guest i expect certain respects but all the same i
idid invite them for 20 years , and because of my invitation i have i many many RESPONSIBILITY'S for them while they
CHOOSE to want to be with me .
2. Children learn MAINLY from observing and copying behaviour ..... of the
MODEL , you the parents . Go to Clean-up Clean-up for more in depth discusion
3. our CURRENT LEVEL OF STIMULATION IS excessive for CHILDREN UNDER age
12 , they have way to many toys and tv and trips to the store .... than is good for their minds . The economy sells the
children , but you have THE INDIVUAL RIGHT to not expose your children to that system of GREED until they are of an age of
UNDERSTANDING 12+
4. Extending daylight artificially with the use of electric lights constantly has a negative
net result on the over all happiness and health of the child/children
5. Children under 10 are happy staying home
as long as their is enough family members to stimulate them . the American/western nuclear family is of an unnaturaldesign
not giving the child enough social contacts thru other moms and brothers and sisters to play with.
6. the
other moms of a harem family each living a hormonal cycle ( which can greatly alter moods ) is able to interact differently
with the family . The children day to day can search the best supporting/complementing mom role model finding the
current strength and weakness of each mom as is natural.
&. Cause and Effect training as described in books
and programs like PET ( parent effectiveness training and Magic 123 ) can help growing young minds learn to find the most
happiness available . Exterior influences such NORMAL daycares and schooling and even grand parents or outside family can
be negative . Consitancey in parenting is IMPORTANT.