IT CAN BE .... OVERWHELMING .... TO BE A PARENT 24/7, whether you end up or are a single parent now . The stress of doing it alone is the REALITY.

"It takes a village to raise a child " is the reality of the INSTINCTUALIST  family unit . Having 3 moms to help each other to support each and for each child each day to find that SPECIAL love and attention that maybe one of the other mothers is best able to provide that DAY ...... non ego unconditional LOVE !

CHILDREN ARE NOT OUR POSSENSIONS! we invited them into our world as our GUESTS !not our possesions !

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HERE IS ONE LINK TO START WITH ......  alternative education ideas , schooling is important but is the PUBLIC SYSTEM the best or even needed for socializing ( programing) your child/ren . OVer and over i ask to you to think out side the box of your programing . Even though Walsh's use of the GOD word to me is ________ these schooling ideas are great and fit in with local laws ETC.

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The concept here is all about the human need for interaction with others , especially between child and parent . The best $ you can spend for any parent is in Magic 123 DVD's .

This along with some many other titles will be availabe in the library of the INSTINCUTALISM compound to come .
 


HOME SCHOOLING

WITH THE ECOMONIC STRAIN GONE BY THE EFFORTS OF THE INSTINCTUALISM MALE   .THREE MOMS CAN SHARE AND SCHEDULE TIMES AND LIVES . THIS OPPURTUNITY BECOMES A PLEASNT REALITY .

Homeschool Decision - 10 Things to Consider

Making the decision to homeschool is usually very difficult and not one to be taken lightly. It is a personal decision that I can't make for you, but maybe I can help in the thought process. When making the homeschool decision, consider these things:
  1. Time commitment - Homeschooling tends to take up a lot of time in your day. It is more than just sitting down with books for a couple of hours. There are experiments and projects to be done, lessons to prepare, papers to grade, field trips, park days, music lessons, and the list goes on. Here are some sample schedules to give an idea of a typical day.
  2. Personal sacrifice - The homeschool parent has little personal time or time alone. If care is not taken to set aside time for yourself, it is easy to never have time alone. Parent and child are basically together 24/7.
  3. Financial strain - Homeschooling can be accomplished very inexpensively; however, it usually requires that the teaching parent will not be working out of the home. Some sacrifices will need to be made if the family is used to two incomes.
  4. Socialization - More attention will need to be given to getting your children together with others. The beauty of homeschooling is being able to have more control of the social contacts your child makes.
  5. Household organization - Housework and laundry still have to be done, but it probably won't get done first thing in the morning. If a stickler for a spotless house, you might be in for a surprise. Not only does housework need to be let go at times, but homeschooling creates messes and clutter in itself.
  6. Both parents in agreement - It is important that both parents agree to try homeschooling. It is very difficult to homeschool if one parent is against it. If your spouse is against it at this time, try doing more research and talking to more people.
  7. Is your child willing? - A willing student is always helpful. Ultimately, the decision is the parents to make, but if your child is dead against it, you might have a hard time of it.
  8. One year at a time - It isn't a lifetime commitment - most families take one year at a time.
  9. Intimidated by the teaching? - If you can read and write, you should be able to teach your children. The curriculum and teacher materials will help through the planning and teaching. Get help from others if you get stuck or hire tutors for the difficult subjects.
  10. Why others began - It might be helpful to hear why other families chose homeschooling. Can you relate with some of them?

Are you willing to make the personal and financial sacrifices that homeschooling requires? If so, give it a year and see how it goes. Your next step? Learn how to get started. Stay up to date, read the Homeschool Blog.


These are the parenting ideas of PHILIP VAN DER MUDE  just my opinion ( special disclaimer )

1. Kids are my invited guests , but like any guest i expect certain respects but all the same i idid invite them for 20 years , and because of my invitation i have i many many RESPONSIBILITY'S for them while they CHOOSE to want to be with me .

2. Children learn MAINLY  from observing and copying behaviour ..... of the MODEL , you the parents . Go to Clean-up Clean-up for more in depth discusion 

3. our CURRENT LEVEL OF STIMULATION IS excessive for CHILDREN UNDER age 12 , they have way to many toys and tv and trips to the store .... than is good for their minds . The economy sells the children , but you have THE INDIVUAL RIGHT to not expose your children to that system of GREED until they are of an age of UNDERSTANDING 12+

4. Extending daylight artificially with the use of electric lights constantly has a negative net result on the over all happiness and health of the child/children

5. Children under 10 are happy staying home as long as their is enough family members to stimulate them . the American/western nuclear family is of an unnaturaldesign not giving the child enough social contacts thru other moms and  brothers and sisters to play with.

6. the other moms of a harem family each living a hormonal cycle ( which can greatly alter moods ) is able to interact differently with the family . The children day to day can search the best supporting/complementing  mom role model finding the current strength and weakness of each mom as is natural.

&. Cause and Effect training as described in books and programs like PET ( parent effectiveness training and Magic 123 ) can help growing young minds learn to find the most happiness available . Exterior influences such NORMAL daycares and schooling and even grand parents or outside family can be negative . Consitancey in parenting is IMPORTANT.

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