WE TEND TO RE-CREATE FAMILAR CONDITONS

IT IS ABOUT THE CHILD HAVING FUN !
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not your judgement of content ! they love to dance !

Establish positive work habits and self pride in terms of economic rewards . If they do well with their studies they get time to play , just like if you do well at work you have extra money to play .

Poor quality work means that bag of M&M's will be full of rocks instead of candy , do that once or twice when the quality of a child's work slips ..... and make the comparison on how some one in the M&M factory did poor work and your treat is now NO GOOD . Like the xy or z they may have presented you earlier that day , claiming it was their best effort when you knew by past efforts was a mis- representation on their part to you .

think about the ideas from PET and magic 123 ... and adapt .

But understand the Environmental upbringing will be the most important factor in whether the child grows up organized or a slob .

Clean up usin the concept of 60 seconds:

Time how long it takes to straighten the bed and on averge you will find it takes 45 seconds!

Time how long it takes to pickup 2 pairs of pants socks , 2 shirts and a towel again you find it will only be seconds . 

IF YOU AS A PARENT TAKE CONTROL of the life of your child liek a parent is SUPPOSED to , for example by limiting the toy choice per day to 3 themes . the daily toy pick again is only second . 

NOW EXTENT THIS INTO YOUR OWN SPACE AND LIFE ! 

because the child will model based on the TRUTH , and how mom lives is the truth !
 

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Children of rich parents tend to be richer on average , children of smokers tend to smoke more often , kids who grew up eating ethinc foods continue to search out those foods as adults  , and kids of poor parenst tend to have $ troulbes . THESE ON AVERAGE ARE THE FACTS !~

 What does this have to do with your child cleaning up his or her room ?


Well! , if the model the lived in is one of clean and orderly ar least part of the day , then once the child is alone with out the support of the parent to pick ou after him or her , they will naturally attempt ON THIER OWN !  , To retrun thier enviroment to one that resembled the home they grew up in .

BUT doesn't teaching them do it themselves instill good work habits ?

NO IF YOU HAVE TO FIGHT TO GE TTHEM TO DO IT. The longest lsting training will be in the sub.C. expectation of the child to live in a clean home . Once alone they will themselves re-crete that level of clean and order they knew at home .

But it is thier HOME TOO !

NO , it is not they are genticlly programed to leave at about age 14 they are thinking only one thought when will i be FREE and have a place of my own . We are DNA designed to build new distinct family units away from dierct control of the parents , associative with the parrents maybe by choice of the child but not direct control . YOUR NOME IS NEVER REALY THIER HOME . it is aplace that a guest uses while learning the rules of living on PLANET EARTH .



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