Establish positive work habits and self pride in terms of economic rewards
. If they do well with their studies they get time to play , just like if you do well at work you have extra money to play
.
Poor quality work means that bag of M&M's will be full of rocks instead of candy , do that once or twice
when the quality of a child's work slips ..... and make the comparison on how some one in the M&M factory did poor
work and your treat is now NO GOOD . Like the xy or z they may have presented you earlier that day , claiming it was their
best effort when you knew by past efforts was a mis- representation on their part to you .
think about the
ideas from PET and magic 123 ... and adapt .
But
understand the Environmental upbringing will be the most important factor in whether the child grows up organized or a slob
.
Clean up usin the concept of 60 seconds:
Time how long it takes to straighten the bed and on averge you will find it takes 45 seconds!
Time
how long it takes to pickup 2 pairs of pants socks , 2 shirts and a towel again you find it will only be seconds
.
IF YOU AS A PARENT TAKE CONTROL of the life of your child liek a parent is SUPPOSED to , for example by
limiting the toy choice per day to 3 themes . the daily toy pick again is only second .
NOW EXTENT
THIS INTO YOUR OWN SPACE AND LIFE !
because the child will model based on the TRUTH , and how mom lives is
the truth !
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