Taken out of Twisted Instinct and orginally referenced out of PET

Dr. Thomas Gordon’s work ,,, P.E.T .  Parent effectiveness training ,,,

From page 175 of that book here is a list of the common reactions to someone’s use of  POWER , see if you can find the men in your life in this list , ladies … and men you to ,, think about how you were in the beginning of the relationship wanting to come home and fuck ,,, but now …. Do any of these fit ?

1.     resistance , defiance , rebellion , negativism

2.     resentment , anger , hostility

3.     aggression , retaliation , striking back

4.     lying ,(  “I’ll be home late  got loads of work say good night to the kids for me “ you told your wife … “hi sally I ‘ll see you in about 10 minutes wear nothing at all ,,,,,”

5.     blaming , ( is after solution building could not happen )

6.     dominating , bossing , bullying ( wife beating , bashing your favorite truck with big metal sticks )

7.     needing to win , hating to lose ( with your friends you are able to build compromises about where to go fishing , after a while not with your wife can you any longer compromise )

8.     forming alliances , organizing against

9.     submission , obedience , compliance ( giving the fuck up and investing your money in Budweiser )

10. courting Favor ( begging )

11. conformity , lack of creativity , fear of trying something new

12. withdrawing , escaping , fantasying , regression

I am not going to say a fuckin word …………….

( i just gotta love my fuckin book ...LOL )