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"We can't solve problems by using the
same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
1in 6 girls are possibly effected by INCEST that is a vast number , WHY ? that large a number when Genetically a
male who is DNA perverted should represent in the population an number of 1 % of 1% , how could that tinynumber effect 20
% of the population ?
If you will read between the lines in the articles on the MATING BEHAVIOR
page you will see that adult males when not sexually coerced or controlled express their desire for females who are sexually
mature !
The effect of manipulative sexual mores is what is creating sexual abuse ... explore the page on coercion/control
.
NOW BDSM is not abuse it is .... safe sane CONSENTUAL ... the creedo of the lifestyle .
NOW understand that sexual manipulation has been
around for 1000's of years , Realize the evidence trail of it suse in the Training of COMBAT SOLDIERS even
in todays world . Look at sexual manipulation in the media and advertising , understand the use of sexual manipulation in
the LEGAL SEX INDUSTRY'S ... like the Gentle mans Club or TITTY BARS .
Do
some study in athat arena and you will start to understand the SUBTLE nature of MANIPULATIONour continues BLIND adherence to UN INSTINCT actions is what continues the
CIRCLE of SYMPTOMS because sexual abuse is so very UN natural FOR SUCH A loving species as HUMAN KIND .
The victim of THESE abuse having lived thru it is stuck Vibrationally in the EMOTIONAL SET POINTbecause of their pain they can be a loud distracting voice confusing things instead
of ENLIGHTENING things ..... stuck in BLAME .
i ( philip van de mude ) place here a wanting of mine since i have had far to many women in my life who labeled themselves
as VICTIM in a law of atraction tao , Victim is also summoner , yet i had been involved in the healing process and know first
hand thie pains and confusion of the Victim ...i put out :Someday
it is my FIRM intention to involve a very very source center young female who has a bent to wards the study or PYSCHOLOGY
… this igirl or THESE girls I want so much to …. Explore and even more let express itself … within the
legalitys available notSOCIAL conventions but within legal issues the realitys behind the expression of the LAW OF ATTRACTION
as it pertains to the events in this book …. For the EXPANSION of future humanity since ,,SEX IS SO RECEATIONAL ..ALIGNING
WITH SOURCE … SO NATURAL for our species that we are sexual 24/7 …………..
for i postulate that a male who has 3 wives demanding sexual and emotional satifaction
from him , ther in no way he could or want to becomeinvolved with an IMATURE FEMALE . Plus the freedom of all youth to self
plesure in alignement that is natural for THEMSELVES without encouragement yet with out condemantion of that expression of
self plesuring and aligning with source conections will prove to allow a person to grow up BETTER ! .
It will a very complex SOCIAL EXPERIMENT AND LONG TERM observation and data colection study . ( only understanding
the unwanted better thru exploring the wants also .... the 5 steps
THE FLAWS IN SEXUAL SOCIALIZATION HAVE BEEN TO A LARGE PART THE GREAT PROBLEM OF HUMAITY
How would a loving family have responded to
the natural expressions of self pleasure , would they have told the child to HIDE AND BE ASHMED " honey go to your room
, or do that in the bath room " NO , especially if the family lived a mainly NAUTRIST life style . It IS always better to keep things out in the open , for when natural things are focred to be hideen the
pervesion of natural expression results the expression fo the effects of MANIPULATION Sexual Development through the Life CycleMany people cannot imagine that everyone—babies,
children, teens, adults, and the elderly—are sexual beings. Some believe that sexual activity is reserved for early
and middle adulthood. Teens often feel that adults are too old for sexual intercourse. Sexuality, though, is much more than
sexual intercourse and humans are sexual beings throughout life.
Sexuality in infants and toddlers—Children
are sexual even before birth. Males can have erections while still in the uterus, and some boys are born with an erection.
Infants touch and rub their genitals because it provides pleasure. Little boys and girls can experience orgasm from masturbation
although boys will not ejaculate until puberty. By about age two, children know their own gender. They are aware of differences
in the genitals of males and females and in how males and females urinate.
Sexuality in children ages three
to seven—Preschool children are interested in everything about their world, including sexuality. They may practice
urinating in different positions. They are highly affectionate and enjoy hugging other children and adults. They begin to
be more social and may imitate adult social and sexual behaviors, such as holding hands and kissing. Many young children play
"doctor" during this stage, looking at other children's genitals and showing theirs. This is normal curiosity. By
age five or six, most children become more modest and private about dressing and bathing.
Children of this age
are aware of marriage and understand living together, based on their family experience. They may role-play about being married
or having a partner while they "play house." Most young children talk about marrying and/or living with a person
they love when they get older. School-age children may play sexual games with friends of their same sex, touching each other's
genitals and/or masturbating together. Most sex play at this age happens because of curiosity.
Sexuality
in preadolescent youth ages eight to 12—Puberty, the time when the body matures, begins between the ages of
nine and 12 for most children. Girls begin to grow breast buds and public hair as early as nine or 10. Boys' development of
penis and testicles usually begins between 10 and 11. Children become more self-conscious about their bodies at this age and
often feel uncomfortable undressing in front of others, even a same-sex parent.
Masturbation increases during these
years. Preadolescent boys and girls do not usually have much sexual experience, but they often have many questions. They usually
have heard about sexual intercourse, petting, oral sex, and anal sex, homosexuality, rape and incest, and they want to know
more about all these things. The idea of actually having sexual intercourse, however, is unpleasant to most preadolescent
boys and girls.
Same-gender sexual behavior is common at this age. Boys and girls tend to play with friends of
the same gender and are likely to explore sexuality with them. Masturbating together and looking at or caressing each other's
genitals is common among preadolescent boys and girls. Such same-gender sexual behavior is unrelated to a child's sexual orientation.
Some group dating occurs at this age. Preadolescents may attend parties that have guests of both genders, and they
may dance and play kissing games. By age 12 or 13, some young adolescents may pair off and begin dating and/or "making
out." In some urban areas, preadolescent boys seek out situations in which they experience vaginal intercourse. Young
women are usually older when they begin voluntary sexual intercourse. However, many very young teens to practice sexual behaviors
other than vaginal intercourse, such as petting to orgasm and oral intercourse.
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